Well that escalated quickly. I’m writing this because I’m so annoyed about this entire situation. If you remember my post on their engagement, then you can see how recent this is all transpiring. I don’t know their reasons for calling it off and really that isn’t my concern. What I do have a problem with is the way women are talking about her.
If you look up #Draya on twitter you will see a ton of rude comments and hate toward her simply because her now ex decided to call it off. The way he went about it was absolutely terrible I agree but why is she the one to blame for this?
It is so classless to attack her and throw her past in her face because of this. These are the series of tweets I posted yesterday and instead of trying to figure out my words this will best help.
I think it's sad & rude that Orlando decided to propose in the first place. If he had 2nd thoughts don't propose. #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Also for other women to bash her and call her this or that is also rude and shows how we still as women can't support each other #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Support her and have her back, it could happen to anyone no matter who we think we are #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Lastly when we will stop using people's past as ammunition.. A lot of us would feel some kind of way if it was done to us #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Why can't women love each other the same way we love everything else… We all want to be loved & feel special #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Instead of using her past can we celebrate that she has flourishing businesses? Can we celebrate that? #Draya
— Jazmyn Anderson (@GoldLabl) July 8, 2015
Aside from my typo up there, that pretty much sums up how I feel. I just don’t think it’s right especially because it’s happened to me and I’ve been the person to make someone feel bad over things like this, definitely not on this scale. If you don’t like her then just wish her well and leave everything else alone. At some point you have to grow up and stop trying to bring others down. She may be putting on a brave face but the last thing she would need is a bunch of random people throwing digs at her, especially women! Lets be nice! I wish her well and hope she can peacefully move on from this minor detour.
